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The impact of a global community

Here we highlight the remarkable ways the Our Wave community fosters a safe, supportive, and engaging space for survivors to embark on their healing journey.

Our Wave is a 501(c)(3) nonprofit and anonymous online community for survivors of sexual harm, domestic violence, and childhood abuse. Since 2019, 479,667 people have joined the platform. Survivors have shared 1,723 stories from 73 countries, our team has answered 725 survivor questions, and we have made 105,269 referrals to hotlines, therapy, legal aid, and local support services. This page presents these numbers, along with our annual impact reports.

Our Impact Reports

By the Numbers

What Has Our Wave Achieved So Far?

479,667 people have joined the Our Wave community since the platform launched in 2019. Survivors have shared 1,723 stories from 73 countries, our team has answered 725 survivor questions, and we have made 105,269 resource referrals. Every figure on this page comes from our own platform data.

Storytelling Community

479,667

Community users

1,723

Stories shared

Survivor Questions & Answers

725

Questions answered

Resources

105,269

Resource referrals

For survivors, by survivors

Messages of hope posted by survivors in 2025

What Does the Our Wave Community Look Like Today?

The Our Wave community has 479,667 users. Members read stories, leave anonymous messages of support, work through grounding exercises, and mark healing milestones as they reach them. To date the community has started 13,414 grounding exercises and reached 25,945 milestones.

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221,722

New community users in 2025

25,945

Survivor milestones achieved

13,414

Grounding exercises started

725

Survivor questions answered

How Many Stories Have Survivors Shared?

Survivors have published 1,723 stories on Our Wave, shared from 51 U.S. states and territories and 73 countries. 857 of those stories include a personal message of hope for other survivors, and 977 include a message about healing.

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1,723

Survivor stories shared

92

Survivor artwork shared

857

Messages of Hope posted

977

Messages of Healing shared

State/Territory

Stories shared

California

105

New York

70

Texas

68

Florida

56

Pennsylvania

48

Minnesota

38

Ohio

37

Illinois

35

Georgia

28

North Carolina

26

41 more

73

Countries with shared stories

51

U.S. states & territories with shared stories

How Do Survivors Get Their Questions Answered?

Survivors can ask anything, anonymously, and someone qualified answers. Questions go to our research and survivor support team, who write back in plain language about consent, disclosure, legal options, relationships, and what healing tends to look like over time. We have answered 725 questions so far, and those answers have been read 452,925 times, which makes them the most-read part of the whole platform. Most of the people reading never had to ask, because someone else already did.

725

Survivor questions answered all time

365

Survivor questions answered in 2025

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How Many Survivors Have We Connected to Resources?

Our Wave has made 105,269 resource referrals, connecting survivors to curated hotlines, therapy services, legal aid organizations, and local support providers. Our resources hub is localized, so a survivor in Japan or Argentina is shown services they can actually reach rather than a U.S. phone number.

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How Does Our Research Support Survivors?

Our Wave is using data to improve healing outcomes for survivors. In practice that means asking and listening to survivors about what has helped them heal, and adapting our platform to match. One of our studies gathered healing advice from 136 survivors across seven countries so the next person can start their journey with tools that already helped someone else. Survivors contribute their stories to this work only with their explicit permission.

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Research Paper: A Synthesis of Survivor-Provided Advice for Overcoming Gender-Based Violence Across Seven Countries
January 1, 2026

Research Paper: A Synthesis of Survivor-Provided Advice for Overcoming Gender-Based Violence Across Seven Countries

This paper explores these experience among 136 survivors of GBV across seven global contexts. Using the Clinical Ethnographic Narrative Interview-Trauma, after reflecting on their healing journey, survivors shared advice for others healing from GBV.

Webinar: Building Digital Healing Spaces for Survivors of Sexual Harm
September 30, 2025

Webinar: Building Digital Healing Spaces for Survivors of Sexual Harm

An in-depth demo of the Our Wave platform and strategies for survivor-focused research, presented by the Nursing Network on Violence Against Women International.

Research Paper: Our Wave, an online platform to facilitate survivor disclosure of sexual assault and trauma recovery
December 17, 2024

Research Paper: Our Wave, an online platform to facilitate survivor disclosure of sexual assault and trauma recovery

This community case study introduces Our Wave, an online platform that provides a safe, anonymous space for survivors of sexual harm to share their stories, reflect on their healing journeys, and connect with others. Designed to empower survivors, the platform allows users to post anonymous stories or visual media, ask questions, and send messages of hope, all while prioritizing privacy and security.

Press & Media

See how Our Wave's mission is making headlines and inspiring change across the media landscape.

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Sean Combs acknowledged abusing his girlfriends. That makes the verdict in his trial more painful for survivors of sexual assault.
July 7, 2025

Sean Combs acknowledged abusing his girlfriends. That makes the verdict in his trial more painful for survivors of sexual assault.

In my years as a sexual assault nurse examiner and trauma healing specialist, I’ve held space for survivors as they learned that their cases wouldn’t go to trial, that charges were dropped, that juries didn’t believe them. I’ve watched strong, resilient people be weathered by the disorientation of institutional disillusionment. Wednesday’s verdict in Sean Combs’ federal trial, acquitting the music mogul of racketeering conspiracy and sex trafficking while convicting him on lesser charges, represents another devastating setback to survivors everywhere.

When they silence our science: The LGBTQ+ research purge & why it matters
June 25, 2025

When they silence our science: The LGBTQ+ research purge & why it matters

Research that could save our lives was silenced. My study on trauma recovery for LGBTQ+ survivors of violence was abruptly terminated. Not because it lacked scientific merit but because of who it aimed to help. This wasn't an isolated incident but part of a coordinated assault that resulted in at least 68 grants being terminated to 46 institutions, eliminating nearly $40 million in funding primarily focused on our community's health.

Sexual Assault Awareness Month: 'Our Wave' Co-founder talks support spaces for survivors
April 26, 2025

Sexual Assault Awareness Month: 'Our Wave' Co-founder talks support spaces for survivors

April is Sexual Assault Awareness Month. 'Our Wave' Co-founder and CTO Brendan Michaelsen joined ABC11 to talk building support spaces for survivors and other resources.

Frequently Asked Questions

Questions we get most often about our numbers, our funding, and how we measure impact.

How is Our Wave funded?

Our Wave is funded three ways: foundation grants, individual donations, and program revenue from organizations that license our storytelling platform. Our institutional funders include the Oak Foundation, which supports our work on childhood sexual abuse prevention and survivor support. We are a 501(c)(3) nonprofit, so donations are tax-deductible and our finances are filed publicly on IRS Form 990.

How does Our Wave measure impact?

We track three things: platform metrics, resource utilization, and partnership and research outcomes. Platform metrics include sharing a story, asking a question, or starting a grounding exercise. We also measure what happens when we point someone toward outside help, counting the referrals and asking whether the resource was beneficial or not. The third is what comes of working with partner organizations and researchers. All of this goes into our annual impact report, most recently for 2025.

How current are Our Wave’s impact numbers?

The impact figures come from our own platform data as reported in our most recent annual impact report, covering 2025. Year-specific figures come from the annual impact report for that year.

Does Our Wave sell or share survivor data?

No. We do not sell survivor data and we do not share identifying information. A story is only used in research when the survivor has explicitly consented. The aggregate figures on this page contain no identifying details.

Can researchers or journalists use Our Wave’s data?

Yes, within limits. Researchers can request access to our consented, anonymized story archive through our research team. Journalists can find approved figures and quotes in our press kit. We do not release story text or identifying information without the survivor’s consent.

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