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Impact Reports

2025 Our Wave Impact Report

Overview

In 2025, Our Wave reached a major milestone. We grew to nearly 480,000 community members and welcomed over 220,000 new survivors and allies to our space in this year alone. We also launched a new and improved community page, enabling deeper connections between survivors and opportunities for allies to share public messages of support. Across the platform, survivors continued to share their stories, ask questions, and find strength in collective healing. With over 1.5 million content views and nearly 600,000 resource referrals in 2025, our community has become a trusted space where survivors know they are not alone.

Community

234,125

+47% 1

Active community members

Storytelling

389

Survivor stories shared

Platform Reach

73

+14%

Countries with shared stories2

Milestones

16,923

+275%

Survivor milestones achieved

Achievements

We nearly doubled our community, welcoming over 220,000 new members to reach nearly 480,000 total survivors, allies, and supporters

We launched the Our Wave platform in Japanese

We added official resources support for 28 countries across the globe

We launched our new Our Wave Community 2.0 Platform, enabling survivors to support one another directly

Nearly 400 new survivor stories were shared, accompanied by over 370 messages of hope and healing from the community

We connected survivors to nearly 600,000 resource referrals, helping them access mental health support, crisis services, and educational materials

Our community expanded to survivors in 73 countries

We launched our 10th storytelling community in partnership with Trey's Law

Thank you to our partners

Our Community

Our community is the heart of Our Wave. In 2025 we saw tremendous growth and welcomed over 220,000 new members. With the launch of our new community page, survivors and allies can now engage more deeply with one another. Our 500+ comments shared and 900,000+ content views this year reflect a community actively engaged in healing together.

234,125

+47%

Active community members

221,938

+45%

New community members in 2025

Our Wave's community growth since our launch in 2019 4

Survivors are learning and reflecting in growing ways.

1,493,851

+133%

Content views all time2

903,250

+121%

Content views in 2025

What is a view on our platform?

We define a view as a meaningful period in which a user reads or engages with content on our platform, including survivor stories, questions, and resources.

Survivors deserve affirmation. People respond with empathy, not judgment.

New Measurement: Comments were added to the platform in June 2025

544

Comments posted all time2

544

Comments posted in 2025

What is a comment on our platform?

A comment is a meaningful response to a survivor, written by a fellow community member. Our team actively moderates all comments to ensure our community is always a safe space for survivors.

Select comments posted on Our Wave in 2025

Survivors are not alone. Encouragement meets them where they are.

8,259

+26%

Story reactions all time2

1,680

Story reactions in 2025

What is a story reaction?

Story reactions are pre-written messages of support that Our Wave users can send anonymously to survivors who share their story. This allows the community to show support while protecting a safe space for survivors.

Every survivor's story has a unique journey

16,923

+275%

Survivor milestones achieved

2,379

Grounding exercises completed

What is a survivor milestone?

Milestones mark the number of times our community has engaged with each survivor's story. Each milestone represents the impact a survivor's story has had on other survivors, allies, and the community as a whole.

Survivors and allies show up for one another with messages of support.

New Measurement: Messages of Support were added to the platform in June 2025

141

Messages of Support posted all time2

109

Messages of Support posted in 2025

What is a message of support on our platform?

Survivors, allies, and community members can share messages of support with the global community. These messages give a voice to anyone and everyone who is here to help support survivors.

Select Messages of Support posted on Our Wave in 2025

Storytelling

Storytelling continues to be at the core of Our Wave's mission. In 2025, survivors shared 389 new stories, each one an act of courage and a gift to others walking similar paths. These stories were shared by a global community across 73 countries, creating a tapestry of support that extends far beyond any single experience. These stories reached hundreds of thousands, reminding survivors everywhere that their voices matter and their healing is possible.

389

Survivor stories shared

21

Survivor artwork shared

163

Messages of Hope shared

211

Messages of Healing shared

A global community of survivors

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Country

Stories shared2

United States

1,039 +26%

United Kingdom

108 +37%

Ireland

95 +23%

Canada

66 +65%

Australia

42 +14%

India

25 +67%

Philippines

14 +27%

Germany

13 +44%

South Africa

13 +18%

Japan

12 +300%

63 more

73

+14%

Countries with shared stories2

51

+2%

U.S. states & territories with shared stories2

State/Territory

Stories shared2

California

106 +51%

New York

70 +30%

Texas

68 +31%

Florida

56 +14%

Pennsylvania

48 +26%

Minnesota

38 +23%

Ohio

37 +19%

Illinois

35 +40%

Georgia

28 +40%

North Carolina

26 +18%

41 more

Self-reported identity and experiences from survivors 2,3

Self-reported survivor race

Self-reported survivor gender

What are self-reported survivor metrics?

When a survivor shares their story with our community, they have the option of selecting tags that represent their identity and their story. These include gender, race, location in which the story took place, and their relationship to the offender.

Self-reported sexual orientation

I was...

Home

752

in School / University

263

at Someone Else’s Home

250

Other

233

at a Social Event

112

at Work

106

in a Public Space

104

Traveling

80

in a Bar / Restaurant

76

Online or in a Digital Space

46

in a Religious Setting

36

in the Military

20

in a Service Setting

15

Incarcerated

12

The offender was a...

Family Member

450

Romantic Partner

322

Acquaintance

234

Stranger

228

Non-Romantic Friend

218

Authority Figure

173

Minor

141

Spouse

108

Ex-Partner

101

Casual / First Date

86

Colleague

47

I identify as...

a Person who is neurodivergent

130

a Person with a physical disability

45

a Person with an intellectual or developmental disability

38

an Immigrant

15

a Person who is blind or has a visual impairment

13

a Person who is deaf / hard of hearing

13

a Person with a speech or language impairment

10

When this occurred I also experienced...

Emotional abuse

665

Physical harm

432

Verbal abuse

417

Financial abuse

209

Stalking

179

Human trafficking

55

Messages of hope shared by survivors in 2025

Survivor Questions & Answers

Our Q&A section saw remarkable growth in 2025, with 365 questions submitted by survivors and answered by experts. The most-asked topic this year centered on making sense of childhood experiences, reflecting the need for thoughtful, expert-informed answers about complex trauma. From questions about consent and boundaries to processing difficult memories, each inquiry represents a brave step toward understanding and healing.

725

+101%

Survivor questions answered all time

365

+29%

Survivor questions answered in 2025

Trending survivor questions & topic areas

Most read questions

Question

Views

Is it abuse to force or pressure someone into a romantic relationship or into dating you?

1,495

I need clarity about childhood sexual behaviors that I now feel guilty about. When I was 10-11, my younger brother was 6-7 years old. After being exposed to pornography around that time, I engaged in inappropriate sexual behaviors with my brother including oral contact and attempted anal contact. This happened a few times before stopping. Later, around age 12, I also engaged in sexual experimentation with my cousin of similar age. When I was 18, I remembered these events and felt deep shame. I spoke with my brother about it when he was 14, and he told me it was okay. Recently, I've been thinking about it again and feeling like I committed child-on-child sexual abuse (COCSA). Should I talk to my brother about it again? We have a good relationship now, and I didn't force or threaten him, but I feel remorseful and ashamed. How can I process these feelings?

1,241

Why did my cousin and I touch each other's private parts when we were little? Is this normal or does it mean something concerning?

1,038

I understand that sexual arousal can sometimes occur during trauma flashbacks for survivors. I'm seeking to understand from a mental health perspective: Is it psychologically healthy or harmful to engage in consensual sexual activity (either alone or with a partner) when experiencing these trauma responses? How can survivors navigate these complex physical reactions in a way that supports healing?

906

A few years ago, I had a memory resurface of when I was 11-12 years old. I briefly (for a few seconds) placed the back of my hand on a family friend's (5-year-old male) private area. I remember him saying 'that is my private area' and I immediately removed my hand and never did that again. I'm not sure why I did it. I had a lot of sexual curiosity at that age and exposure to pornography. No other sexual actions occurred between us, and there was no intent to do anything sexual. I think I was just curious. I spoke to a therapist who said this wasn't COCSA or any sexual crime, and that it's not uncommon. She noted that although there was an age difference, there were no sexual actions taken or force/manipulation used. Do you agree with my therapist? I'm not sure if this was a crime or just normal childhood exploration.

884

360 more

Trending topics

Answering questions asked by survivors across the globe

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Country

Questions submitted2

United States

333 +123%

Kuwait

53 +39%

United Kingdom

52 +148%

Canada

35 +250%

Mexico

24 +167%

Brazil

21 +11%

India

20 +233%

South Africa

18 +38%

Australia

15 +150%

Argentina

14 +367%

34 more

44

+38%

Countries with submitted questions2

41

+17%

U.S. states & territories with submitted questions2

State/Territory

Questions submitted2

California

33 +94%

Florida

20 +150%

Texas

20 +82%

Alabama

17 +89%

Maryland

13 +160%

Pennsylvania

13 +63%

Virginia

13 +225%

Georgia

10 +400%

Missouri

10 +400%

North Carolina

10 +100%

31 more

Select questions submitted by our community in 2025

Survivor Resources

In 2025, survivors connected with nearly 600,000 resource referrals, accessing mental health professionals, crisis support services, and educational materials. As our community grows, so does our commitment to ensuring every survivor has access to the tools and support they need. By maintaining trusted referrals in a safe digital environment, we help survivors take confident steps toward their healing journey.

What is a resource referral?

We define a resource referral as each time a visitor to Our Wave clicks on a link to visit one of our trusted resource partners. These links appear in our Resources hub, in emails that we send to our community, and throughout the navigation of our platform.

References & Considerations

This report encompasses data collected from January 1, 2025 to January 1, 2026.

All stories and messages written by survivors are used with the survivors' permission to publish.

We made significant changes to the breath of our metrics reporting efforts from 2024 to 2025. Because of these changes, some metrics will show growth discrepancies from previous years.

1 Comparison to the same metric during the previous annual report period.

2 Aggregated metrics from the founding of Our Wave in 2019 to the end of 2025.

3 Demographic and tag data from stories submitted directly to the core Our Wave storytelling platform (community.ourwave.org)

4 Community members are defined by unique IP addresses that visit our Community platform over a given period of time. We periodically clean up our metrics to remove IPs from known scrapers, crawlers, and bots.

Do you have any questions or recommendations about our data? Send us an email at [email protected].

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