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This is not in your head. I've gone through the same process because the worst didn't happen. What happened was bad enough and thank goodness that it didn't go further. Don't downplay your experience. He was wrong.

Please don't give him an opportunity to take advantage of you again. Even though it may feel like you're abandoning him. What he did and was about to do was wrong. It is likely he will do it again. Don't put his needs before your own safety.

Sharing your story can be difficult but so healing! I hope you know you are not alone and you are not a narcissist for not forgiving your abusers. Your healing journey is your own - don’t let others tell you the “right” way to go about it.

It is a heartbreaking occurrence for children to go through experiences such as this. It was never your fault and you’re extremely brave for telling your story. It shows your strength and how you are pushing forward despite the experience.

This is not something you ever should have gone through and you are so strong for sharing your story. Family is supposed to be loyal and caring, not cause us pain. There is a community here for you to support you!

No, dear victim. You are NOt at fault. There was likely a power imbalance, and it is clear that you did not consent. Please call the hotline and seek the help you deserve. It gets better.

You should never feel ashamed for your own life, your own situation, your own emotions. I am so sorry this happened to you but it will never define you. You are strong in sharing your story and defining your own boundaries and healing path.

The strength held and community supported by the women on this platform is amazing always! I'm so sorry you ever voiceless. Your voice matters and you are not alone.

I had an extremely similar situation to you and my heart goes out to you. I felt so lost and confused. I hope you found the help and support you needed💕

Gives me hope to know you have left your abusive relationship and found peace. I hope everyone in this community can know those feelings of fulfillment and love for yourself.

Hi. The almost exact same situation happened to me recently. It is not your fault and you are not responsible for his actions against you. I'm so sorry this happened.

It’s okay to feel however you are feeling. You are not alone! Know that there is support if and when it feels helpful. I see you and I believe you.

You are not a burden or unworthy of love. You have always deserved love and understanding. Feel all that you need to feel and know that you are not at fault.

Being here, using your voice to heal and share and feel less alone - it's more brave than I can properly communicate. You are so strong and I am glad that you are here searching for support and/or to be a support for others.

To all survivors here: we see you, we hear you, we believe you. Together we are making a difference ❤️

You are so valuable. No matter what the world right now is telling you. You matter.

You are so important. Thank you for being here.

You will laugh again. You will smile again. You are rebuilding and that takes time. Joy is still available to you. You are worthy of love to yourself. You are giving yourself the love you need to open yourself up to the love you deserve.

You are not alone in your experience. ♥️

You don't have to have it all figured out to move forward. It's okay to not be okay - things will get better.

Healing can be variable. Healing can be inconsistent. Your journey can be a difficult and frustrating one. But you are on it, you are trying, and you will be okay ❤️